Discover your capacity for connection and pleasure.
Why hire a coach?
There’s a lot of pressure to be an incredible lover, trusted communicator, and everything in between — but we are rarely taught these skills or given an opportunity to expand our beliefs and expertise about sex and relationships in a safe, nonjudgmental and confidential setting.
Instead, we’re told that sex, and our sexuality, are unwanted or even shameful – we’re too much, not enough, and definitely not ‘normal.’ And because our world has very restricted definitions of ‘appropriate’ sex and desire, many of us feel isolated in our eroticism.
Coaching can offer tools and resources to help you expand your capacity for intimacy and connection, navigate unrealistic cultural sexpectations, and enhance the pleasure in your life.
You may be wondering if this is for you.
Do you wish there were more to the pleasure and intimacy you are currently experiencing?
Do you wonder why the fairy tale hasn’t happened yet or worked out for you?
Do you want to become a better lover and feel more confident during sex?
Is it hard to ask for what you want or need, either in or out of the bedroom?
Are you stuck in your head with performance anxiety, negative body image or a loud inner critic?
Do you feel isolated and ashamed of your desires?
Are there topics you don’t feel comfortable discussing with a therapist?
I work exclusively with clients I meet on Chaturbate. Here’s what they have to say:
“Lyla is my good friend, confident, counselor, consultant and a highly intelligent individual that can help me sort things out. I can tell her anything. And know that she won’t judge me, she won’t try to change me, she just accepts me.”
“Lyla draws people into their freedom.”
“I really appreciate how cared about and seen you make me feel in our connection. I don’t ever feel like your respect for me is compromised even by me sharing wounds and weaknesses and as a man I can’t tell you how hard that is to find.”