Find confidence and joy in your relationships and sex life.
Why hire a coach?
There’s a lot of pressure to be an incredible lover, trusted communicator, and everything in between — but we are rarely taught these skills or given an opportunity to expand our beliefs and expertise about sex and relationships in a safe, nonjudgmental and confidential setting.
Instead, we’re told that sex, and our sexuality, are unwanted or even shameful – we’re too much, not enough, and definitely not ‘normal.’ And because our world has very restricted definitions of ‘appropriate’ sex and desire, many of us feel isolated in our eroticism.
Coaching can offer tools and resources to help you expand your capacity for intimacy and connection, navigate unrealistic cultural sexpectations, and enhance the pleasure in your life.
You may be wondering if this is for you.
Do you wish there were more to the pleasure and intimacy you are currently experiencing?
Do you wonder why the fairy tale hasn’t happened yet or worked out for you?
Do you want to become a better lover and feel more confident during sex?
Is it hard to ask for what you want or need, either in or out of the bedroom?
Are you stuck in your head with performance anxiety, negative body image or a loud inner critic?
Do you feel isolated and ashamed of your desires?
Are there topics you don’t feel comfortable discussing with a therapist?
What clients from CB are saying:
To achieve your intimacy goals, our coaching journey will follow a personalized yet structured path:
Discovery
Our online sessions are a safe and confidential place to play, express and explore the full landscape of who you are. To learn what really works for you, we will unlock your innermost desires and reclaim what’s essential about you: your real needs, authentic boundaries, deepest longings and truest nature. Within our relationship, we will also discover any patterns of behavior that might be preventing you from having more connected, pleasurable and fulfilling relationships.
Connection
The coaching relationship is collaborative and mutually vulnerable. We will use our connection as an empowering, playful container for you to gain agency, competence and confidence in your relationships and sex life. As we work together, you have the opportunity to receive real-time, constructive feedback on the most fundamental parts of your life – connection with another person. You will learn about yourself and your impact on others in an honest, loving way.
Practice
Sex and relationship coaching is a call to action. Unlike traditional talk therapy, you have the opportunity to practice skills and increase your confidence. I will use our connection to help you learn how to have authentic, honest and boundaried intimacy. How do we learn to initiate a conversation about boundaries, quiet our inner critic, or ask our partner to fulfill a fantasy? By learning, trying, and practicing. Because experience is the best teacher.